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Meg K's avatar

As a queer 28 year old who is clearly living a paralleled life to yours (to include the 24 hour man crush as a lesbian)— this was insanely validating to read. Turns out neither of us are exceptionally special in the way of which we are exonerated from making insane choices just to find some sort of footing as the pendulum swings.

Alina Houston's avatar

Love hearing what went into this song and glad you’re feeling more yourself. Love your music in every form but this is the you I fell in love with. Everything I was hoping for and more. Can’t wait for the album.

Avi's avatar

Love this Chelsea, amazing song and love reading your thoughts

Brandon Allen's avatar

I love hearing this beautiful perspective will be letting my pendulum swing. Awaiting the album 🙌🏻

Caleigh's avatar

So excited for this next chapter! Bad is such a good (pun-intended) beginning! ❤️

Ryann's avatar

This is exactly what I needed! Someone who is/has gone through the same shit I’m going through! The validation that this gave me is everything! I’m proud of the obstacles but am ready to feel like myself again!

Gaby Bascuñan Simone's avatar

Probably the most relatable, well-written set of words to exemplify what it feels like to be alive and human. Excited to be here for whatever 2026 Chelsea brings :)

bayle's avatar

Not to say this was my only takeaway, but I did laugh out loud at “both of my dogs bark at me all the time.”

liv's avatar

i hope you realize how incredible of a writer you are, not just in song. you could write a book my guy!! you’re so seen and heard. it’s okay to find out the good and the bad, just be safe while having fun. love you forever

R.D. Cunningham's avatar

BAD = GOOD

you're so valid, chelsea. stoked to know you're re-learning yourself; excited for the next yes

Colin Breslin's avatar

Love this insight into your mind Chelsea thank you for the incredible song (it’s been on repeat all day)

and for being your most authentic self with this track and being so venerable with us ❤️

Bryan Sim's avatar

I've known your music for awhile and I saw you live at Jones Beach Theatre in August (I was there to see Valley ❤️)and loved your performance. I love it when musicians open up about their music on here and it inspires me to keep writing! I can't wait to read more!

tawny <3's avatar

the 24 hr crush on a man and the “i’m not for the boys even if they’re for me” really hit. this was beautiful and reminds me you’re not just a great lyricist but a great writer! so much resonates as always but just thanks for sharing chelsea <3

Sharon Galeano's avatar

This hits with every bit of “find myself” post-brutal-divorce — THANK YOU

Tori Simokov's avatar

I'm obsessed. Congratulations!!

Kira Karlstrom's avatar

This is beautiful. Proud of you!!! ❤️